The state of the pendulum. The result of the coaching
“Alas, so is the way the light: thick-headed firmly confident and intelligent are full of doubt,” Mark Twain
… have had several meetings, coaching sessions, and it is basically a request
to self-determination here and now adults mature people, clever large, with
significant backgrounds behind your back, that’s amazing. And now, finding
themselves in a time of uncertainty (and nothing is more constant in sensation
than a temporary, temporary uncertainty), flagellation directed over them. So
much soul-searching, no doubt, “execution” internal. This feeling of
guilt, self-directed, and doubt is that something else you need to be the one
…. Each – with an active mind, and in a state of “pendulum” swings
and that state of inner balance, peace is not achieved. And each is the
condition of the individual amplitude. When I start to communicate with the
person intuitively I realize that I can help, but do not know exactly, what
tools are in the process will give the best effect. There is a structure of
work, several methods and approaches. And every time they are selected
individually …. The main methods are effective and structured visualization
of the situation of environmental, cognitive and emotional inner world,
strengths and risks, and appeal to the ability to listen to yourself, to the
fact that it is significant, valuable and what feelings are important their own
that is important. Draw, write, talk, listen to the value of the longer that a
person can do for others … and appeal to the ability to listen to yourself,
to the fact that it is significant, valuable and what feelings are important in
their own what is important. Draw, write, talk, listen to the value of the
longer that a person can do for others … and appeal to the ability to listen
to yourself, to the fact that it is significant, valuable and what feelings are
important in their own what is important. Draw, write, talk, listen to the
value of the longer that a person can do for others …
And work in coaching – is not literally “turn the screw” and “form did.” It’s a fine man setting on the support and frustrations so that it appeared the momentum to perform the desired action, feel differently, it is better to think in a different level of awareness that is significant. How to measure the effectiveness of the work?
Here is heard at a meeting of the words from a client and as a string internally felt fine vibration: “There are quacks: promises manna from heaven, the results are unmatched, and they do not happen to have me even more is not expected to get – a good result should be – then it is now… ! ” And now I have a state of quiet joy, when the feedback came from a man with gratitude and he consciously identifies himself changes in yourself, and real changes with real results in what has been the difficulty. A measurement of the internal state estimation for himself chose in the subtle physical moment: “Yesterday after the meeting made a cross with a surprisingly good performance Pulse When you run fast, but the pulse is low, that is, the heart is very quiet without overextending This suggests decline.. nervousness and anxiety. I inwardly calm …. I want to thank you again for your time and the work done. A qualitative study of the problematic issue. Empathic listening – this turned out to be not enough to me at the moment. We were able to “side” to look at themselves and the current problems. Understand that the main inhibiting factor: the fallen self-esteem, a constant “self-incrimination” and “punishment” itself. There is a particular utility in a number of points. Perhaps the result of our work is still “catch up” later. ” There is a particular utility in a number of points. Perhaps the result of our work is still “catch up” later. ” There is a particular utility in a number of points. Perhaps the result of our work is still “catch up” later. “
… Sometimes a person is unable to stop the pendulum and he needs someone who will lead him into balance …. Some people just need a good balance of support in frustration to perform new actions and get out of the “state samnambulicheskogo comfortable stay unchanged” (and it can drag out) … with shelving “for later” … Feedback appreciated.
And I’m grateful to the people who turn to me, those who trust. The result is, and this is the best. And you want the result to be positive on the rise.